The Psychology of Us

The Psychology of Us

"The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr" explores the fascinating world of human behavior, relationships, and shared experiences. Hosted by acclaimed psychology educator and author Professor RJ Starr, this podcast makes psychology relatable and engaging, breaking down complex ideas into practi...

Recent Episodes

Nov. 5, 2025

The Psychology of Having an Opinion: Why We Care How Other People Live

It began as a light moment in class on Halloween morning. Students were chatting about their plans—costumes, haunted houses, parties—when one young woman casually said she always puts up her Christmas tree that night. She doe...

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Oct. 29, 2025

Becoming Real: The Psychology of Selfhood in an Imitative Age

We live in a time when being “authentic” has become its own kind of performance. In this lecture, Professor RJ Starr explores how the modern self is shaped by imitation, validation, and attention — and what psychology reveals...

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Oct. 22, 2025

The Psychology of Restraint: The Quiet Strength Within

In a world that rewards immediacy, restraint has become an endangered virtue. Every platform encourages reaction, every moment invites commentary, and silence has started to feel like weakness. But what if the real measure of...

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Oct. 15, 2025

The Psychology of Self-Righteousness

Self-righteousness is one of those habits of mind that can feel powerful in the moment but quietly corrodes everything around it. The conviction that one’s own perspective is morally superior doesn’t just close doors to dialo...

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Oct. 8, 2025

Mean World Syndrome: The Psychology of Fearful Perception

Mean world syndrome is the belief that the world is more dangerous than it is, shaped by fear-saturated media. In this episode, Professor RJ Starr explains the psychology behind this distortion: cultivation theory, availabili...

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Oct. 1, 2025

The Psychology of Interruptions: Power, Anxiety, and Disregard in Eve…

Interruptions might seem like small conversational slip-ups, but they reveal far more than we think. In this episode, Professor RJ Starr unpacks the psychology of interruptions: how they function as power moves, how they aris...

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