The Psychology of Us

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March 22, 2025

FOMO Unpacked: The Psychology of Missing Out in a Social Media World

In this episode of The Psychology of Us, Professor RJ Starr explores one of the most pervasive feelings in modern life: the fear of missing out, or FOMO. While FOMO may feel like a recent phenomenon driven by social media, it...

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March 18, 2025

The Worry Trap: Why We Overthink and How to Break Free

Overthinking—it’s something we’ve all experienced, but why does it happen? And more importantly, how can we break free from it? In this episode of The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr , we take a deep dive into the ps...

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March 15, 2025

The Psychology of Censorship and Control

Welcome to The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr , the podcast that explores the hidden forces shaping human thought, behavior, and society. In this episode, The Psychology of Censorship and Control, we uncover how cen...

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March 11, 2025

Eremitism: The Psychology of Solitude and the Desire to Be Alone

In a world that never stops talking, what happens when we choose to step away? In this episode of The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr , we explore eremitism —the act of withdrawing from society for solitude, self-ref...

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March 7, 2025

The Roots of Anger: Why We Lose Our Cool

Why do we lose our cool? What’s really happening beneath the surface when anger takes hold? In this episode of The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr, we dive deep into the psychology of anger—where it comes from, what ...

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March 4, 2025

Why People Annoy Us: The Psychology of Irritation

Why do certain people and behaviors get under our skin? In this episode of The Psychology of Us , Professor RJ Starr unpacks the fascinating psychology behind irritation. From the biological roots of annoyance to the cognitiv...

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Feb. 27, 2025

Midterm Mayhem: How to Manage Academic Stress and Study Smarter

This podcast episode is a gift to my psych students, and to all students around the world. Enjoy! Midterm exams can feel overwhelming, but understanding the psychology behind stress can help you stay focused, motivated, and p...

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Feb. 25, 2025

Psychology of Values: The Hidden Compass Guiding Your Life

In this episode of The Psychology of Us , Professor RJ Starr explores the profound impact of focusing on your values and how they shape every aspect of your life. Why do some decisions feel effortless while others leave you c...

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Feb. 21, 2025

Stereotypes, Discrimination, and the Reality of Asian Women

In this special guest-hosted episode of The Psychology of Us , Cultural Psychology student Lilian Chantarakorn sits down with her professor, RJ Starr , for a powerful conversation on the stereotypes, discrimination, and objec...

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Feb. 18, 2025

Ghosting: Why People Disappear and the Psychology of Avoidance

Have you ever been ghosted? One day, you're talking to someone—maybe a friend, a romantic partner, or even a family member—and then, without warning, they vanish. No explanation. No goodbye. Just silence. Ghosting is one of t...

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Feb. 13, 2025

Psychology of Procrastination: Why We Put Things Off

Why do we procrastinate, even when we know it will make things harder in the long run? Is it laziness, a lack of discipline, or something deeper? In this episode of The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr , we break down...

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Feb. 10, 2025

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder: Beyond the Stereotypes

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is one of the most misunderstood mental health conditions, often misused as a casual label for neatness or perfectionism. But what is OCD really? In this episode of The Psychology of Us wit...

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Feb. 7, 2025

McVulnerability: When Online Emotion Becomes a Performance

In this episode, Professor RJ Starr is interviewed by graduate student Gabriella Jamison to explore the concept of McVulnerability —a term describing the curated, performative nature of emotional sharing on social media. They...

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Feb. 4, 2025

Psychology of Gaslighting: Reclaim Your Reality

Have you ever walked away from a conversation questioning your own memory, your perception—even your sanity? Gaslighting is one of the most insidious forms of psychological manipulation, designed to make you doubt your realit...

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Feb. 1, 2025

Psychology of Moral Panic: Fear, Backlash, and Culture Wars

Why do societies erupt into moral panic? Why does every cultural shift spark outrage, fear, and reactionary backlash? In this episode of The Psychology of Us , Professor RJ Starr breaks down the psychological forces behind mo...

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Jan. 28, 2025

Aging: The Afternoon of Life, a Journey to Meaning and Freedom

SPECIAL EPISODE: In this special edition episode, we explore the beauty and complexity of aging, diving into the emotional and psychological growth that comes with embracing life’s later chapters. Aging isn’t about becoming l...

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Jan. 25, 2025

Political Theater: Psychology of Manipulating Emotions and Shaping So…

In this episode of The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr , we delve into the fascinating world of political theater and its profound psychological impact on society. As we witness the beginning of a new presidential ad...

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Jan. 22, 2025

Psychology of Jealousy: Why We Feel Green with Envy

Jealousy is a universal emotion—uncomfortable, complex, and often misunderstood. In this episode of The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr , we explore the roots of jealousy, from its evolutionary origins as a survival ...

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Jan. 18, 2025

Psychology of Division: Why Some Leaders Thrive on Conflict

Why do some leaders and public figures seem to thrive on creating division? In this episode of The Psychology of Us , Professor RJ Starr explores the psychological principles behind divisive behavior. From the manipulation of...

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Jan. 15, 2025

The Impact of Social Media on Self-Esteem and Identity

In this episode of The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr , we explore how social media is shaping the way we see ourselves and each other. From the dopamine rush of likes to the pressure of curating the "perfect" profi...

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Jan. 11, 2025

Psychology of Dying: A Continuation, Not a Conclusion

In this profound and thought-provoking episode of The Psychology of Us, Professor RJ Starr explores one of life’s greatest mysteries: the act of dying. Is death truly the end, or is it part of a greater continuum that we don’...

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Jan. 10, 2025

Cultural Anxiety: Psychology of Collective Experience

In this episode of The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr , we dive deep into the concept of cultural anxiety, exploring how it arises during periods of significant societal change and rapid transformation. From its his...

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Jan. 8, 2025

Emotional Intelligence: Navigating Your Feelings and Actions

In this episode of The Psychology of Us with Professor RJ Starr , we dive into the transformative power of emotional intelligence (EI). Discover how developing self-awareness and self-regulation can help you better understand...

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Jan. 7, 2025

Unpacking Self-Awareness: Understanding Your Inner World

In this episode of The Psychology of Us , Professor RJ Starr takes you on a journey into the transformative power of self-awareness. What does it really mean to know yourself? Why is it so essential for personal growth, meani...

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